Everything we accomplish happens not just because of our efforts but also through the efforts of others. The biggest difference between people who manage others versus people who lead others is how they develop those under them.
As all leaders know, untitled or not, leadership is power with people, not power over people. Do you build people up or tear them down? Encourage or discourage others? Try to be the hero, or make heroes out of those around you?
According to researcher Tom Rath at Gallup, the No. 1 reason why people quit their jobs is lack of appreciation. Everyone wants to feel significant, to be recognized for what they do. It’s important to make people feel appreciated. It’s even more important to let people know there is someone who believes in them, so much so that he or she will not let them be less than they can be.
The 3 C’s of Power with People:
Character – Those who wish to influence others understand how important character is. When establishing character, it is critical to remember that the opposite of humility isn’t pride; it is self absorption. Few people can lead or inspire others, at work or at home, when they are self-absorbed.
Competence – People who act as leaders exude competence – by their actions, by their appearances and in everything they undertake.
Connection – When we act effectively as leaders, those around us bond with us – not because of our position or title in the organization, but because of their relationship with us.
Once you’ve developed these 3 C’s in your relationships with others, you will be capable of leading. As a leader, titled or not, your job is to act as a thermostat, not as a thermometer. Industrialist Harvey Firestone said, “You get the best out of others when you give the best of yourself.” So give it your best.
Leadership Action Points:
Express your appreciation – To act like a leader, celebrate the success of those around and under you as if it were your own.
Ask others what motivates them – When was the last time anyone asked you what motivates you? Don’t make assumptions about what motivates your team either.
Collaborate – When it comes to decision-making, the oft-used acronym TEAM is true: Together Everyone Accomplishes More.
Practice diplomatic confrontation – Rather than confronting the person, consider what behavior of his or hers needs to change. Confront the problem, not the person.
Quotes
You can only grow if you’re willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.
Brian Tracy, well known advisor in business and
personal subjects
If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.
Tony Robbins, self-development author and
speaker
Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right. We don’t need an intelligent mind that speaks, but a patient heart that listens.
Unknown
Thinking will not overcome fear but action will.
W. Clement Stone, philanthropist and
businessman
Iain Enticott, Director, Technology for Accountants.
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